From Chaos to Control — Navigate High-Conflict Divorce with Clarity, Strategy & Calm

For women navigating high-conflict, high-asset divorce — and for attorneys seeking a trusted partner — Alexis Karp delivers proven systems, on-call strategic guidance, emotional clarity, and courtroom-ready documentation.

👉 Get Your High-Conflict Divorce Survival Kit
Your essential roadmap: the clear plan you need before your next court date.

Get My Survival Kit

Your first step toward reclaiming power and protecting what matters

When divorce turns high-conflict — when there’s control, manipulation, hidden money, or endless chaos — it stops being just a divorce. It becomes survival.
You don’t have to figure this out alone.

Why a High-Conflict Divorce Demands a Specialist

Divorce is already hard. But when it turns high-conflict — with control, manipulation, hidden money, or nonstop post-separation drama — it’s no longer just a divorce. It’s survival mode.

Most therapists and traditional coaches aren’t trained for this. They won’t:

Teach you how to keep airtight documentation
Prepare you to respond strategically when you’re under fire
Help you anticipate legal traps before you step into them

That’s where I come in. I’m a Certified High-Conflict Divorce Coach — and a survivor of my own high-conflict divorce. I blend empathy with tactical rigor: documentation systems, communication scripts, boundary setting, and resilience training.

My clients don’t just “get through it.” They emerge clearer, calmer, and more prepared for what lies ahead.

About Alexis Karp

You don’t need another person telling you to “stay calm.” You need someone who’s been through the fire — and learned how to walk out with strategy, not scars.

I’m Alexis Karp, a Certified High-Conflict Divorce Coach. I help women in high-asset, high-conflict divorces protect their peace, their finances, and their credibility.

Years ago, I was exactly where you are — caught in the fog of manipulation, legal games, and emotional chaos. The system wasn’t built to protect people like us. So I built my own strategy — and that strategy became my career.

Now, I help clients do what feels impossible — to:

Communicate without feeding the conflict
Document what really matters in court
Stay composed when everything feels like it’s breaking
Rebuild trust in their own judgment

My background blends certification, psychology-based communication training, and lived experience inside high-conflict systems. The result is a coaching approach that’s calm, direct, and unapologetically strategic.

Because you don’t just need to survive this — you need to walk out of it knowing you've won.

Two Paths, One Mission

Clarity and control — whether you're navigating divorce or guiding clients through it.
I specialize in high-conflict, high asset divorces where the process itself becomes a tool of control — helping clients stay grounded, strategic, and credible while their legal team focuses on the law.

For Women Facing Complex Divorce

Custody disputes, co-parenting conflict, and contested assets
Covert financial games
Relentless manipulation and false accusations

I’ll help you:

Map your ex’s conflict patterns
Build airtight documentation
Communicate without escalating
Stay grounded when everything feels like it is falling apart
Manage parenting-schedule changes and child-related communication with calm, strategic responses

For Attorneys & Legal Teams

Clients who burn through advice with emotional meltdowns
Case delays caused by client disorganization
Evidence presented in chaos

I support your clients so you can:

Focus on legal strategy, not emotional handholding
Receive organized, credible documentation
Achieve smoother proceedings and stronger outcomes

Download your free Survival Kit to see how this strategy works.

DOWNLOAD HERE

What You Get with Alexis
More Than Coaching — A Complete System for High-Conflict Divorce

Strategic Case Profiling — A behavioral “map” of your ex’s patterns and likely moves.
Communication & Custody Protocols —Message reviews, parenting-app guidance, and response templates for high-conflict co-parenting and custody coordination.
Documentation Engine — A proven system to log and organize evidence the court respects.

Emotional Resilience Support — Grounding tools to keep you clear and calm under pressure.
Court-Smart Perspective — Insights into how judges see patterns, evidence and behavior.
On-Demand Support — When things escalate, I’m there to help you pivot fast.

Testimonials

"I was introduced to Alexis and her services towards the end of my incredibly long divorce battle and would have thought it almost too late to bring her onboard … but I’m so glad I did!! She was able to review my case, provide a professional shoulder to unburden to – and most importantly, gave me some invaluable advice which altered the outcome of my situation immeasurably! I only wish I’d met her at the start of my divorce as I’m convinced I would have been far less stressed, less overwhelmed and from day 1 would have felt like a woman in control of my situation.

-J.S New York City

"When you are going through custody and co-parenting with a narcissist, it can feel like you're in the middle of a very strong storm. Alexis is like a lighthouse in that storm, and as you move towards that light, you move away from the storm. Her help in communicating effectively with a high-conflict co-parent has significantly reduced the frequency of harassing messages I receive - a welcome respite! She's helped me view co-parenting and my case through a more strategic lens so that I can feel empowered"

- M.H. Ontario CA

"I cannot express enough gratitude for the incredible support and guidance I received from Alexis during my high-conflict divorce. When I first reached out to her, I was overwhelmed, lost and struggling. Alexis's expertise in understanding narcissistic personalities was invaluable. She helped me to set and maintain boundaries and taught me the importance of documentation - which proved crucial in court . I honestly do not know how I would have survived without her and I don't believe my children and I would have got the same outcome that we did if I had not been fortunate enough to have her on my team!"

-C.F London

"Alexis's help in communicating effectively with a high-conflict co-parent has significantly reduced harassing messages."

Why This Works

It's not just theory — it's grounded in research and results

Although high-conflict divorces represent only a minority of cases, they consume up to 90% of family court resources.*
Research on high-conflict co-parenting interventions shows that structured supports reduce repeated court filings and escalation cycles.**
Judges consistently note that clear, consistent documentation is one of the most powerful tools in custody and divorce outcomes.***

Clients often tell me they wish they had started coaching earlier — because early documentation and strategy shifts everything.

"When you start speaking the language of the court — facts, documentation, and patterns — and remain unemotional, your opponent loses the psychological edge."

Sources:*(Deck et al., 2023, Advances in Social Work); **(Digital Commons); ***(Chisolm-Trimble Law, 2023)

Your Roadmap to Control

1️⃣ Free Download – Start with your free High-Conflict Divorce Survival Kit.
2️⃣ Strategy Call – Intake session to review your case, red flags, and priorities.
3️⃣ Ongoing Coaching & Strategy – Weekly strategy sessions on communication, documentation, and boundaries.
4️⃣ Crisis Support – Immediate pivots when things escalate.
5️⃣ Court Readiness – Alignment with your attorney for optimal outcomes.

Stronger Clients, Smoother Cases — Partner With a Proven High-Conflict Coach

Attorneys and legal teams — imagine a clients who arrive mentally organized, emotionally grounded, and ready to cooperate. That’s what I deliver. My coaching reduces overwhelm, strengthens documentation compliance, and helps you litigate more effectively.

When firms partner with me:

Clients arrive mentally grounded and organized
Fewer delays, smoother communication, stronger evidence
Trusted client support — always within ethical boundaries
Position your firm as offering “divorce with support", not just litigation.

Options:

Referral Partnership — Send clients directly to me for structured support
White-Label Coaching — I integrate seamlessly as an extension of your firm’s service

Request a Partnership Guide & See the ROI for Your Firm

Your Questions Answered

Q: How is coaching different from therapy?
A: Therapy helps you heal. Coaching helps you act strategically — even when emotions run high. We focus on strategy, boundaries, and communication.

Q: Is this only for narcissistic or abusive partners?
A: Not at all. High conflict can also look like gaslighting, refusal to negotiate, chronic boundary violations, or legal warfare.

Q: When should I hire a coach vs. an attorney?
A: The earlier the better. I help you get organized and strategic so your attorney can focus fully on the law.

Q: What if my lawyer and I disagree on tactics?
A: I don’t override legal advice. My role is to keep you strategic and organized so you and your attorney stay aligned and effective

Q: How can I afford coaching on top of legal fees?
A: Every escalation costs thousands. Coaching prevents unnecessary motions, improves documentation, and saves both time and money. Most clients find it quickly pays for itself.

Q: Do you work directly with attorneys?
A: Yes. Many attorneys refer clients to me because it makes their cases smoother, more credible, and less emotionally draining.

Start Reclaiming Power Today

You don’t have to stay stuck in emotional chaos or legal confusion.

👉 Download your free High-Conflict Divorce Survival Kit
Your first step toward clarity, control, and courtroom confidence.

Download Your Free Kit

Invest in Strategy, Not Just Survival

A high-conflict divorce drains time, money and sanity — but the right strategy prevents costly mistakes, preserves your credibility, and protects your peace.

Each package is designed to give you exactly what you need — without wasting resources on what you don’t.

Package 1: Emergency Support

For when everything feels on fire and you need immediate clarity.

One 90-minute intensive strategy session (virtual)

Crisis communication coaching with ready-to-use email/text templates

Court-smart documentation checklist to stabilize your record-keeping

Emotional self-defense and grounding techniques for high-pressure moments

7-day follow-up access via email for urgent questions

Investment: $495 (one-time)

➡️ Book Your Emergency Session

Package 2: Divorce Strategy & Support

For women navigating high-asset, high-conflict divorce who want a structured, strategic path forward.

Everything in Emergency Support, plus:

90 Minute onboarding call to set your foundation

Weekly 1:1 strategy sessions (50 minutes each)
On-call message and email support for time-sensitive issues (during business hours)
Custom documentation system and coaching for court-ready organization
Personalized communication templates and boundary scripts
Preparation coaching for hearings, mediation, or testimony — helping you stay calm, organized, and credible under pressure.
Attorney-alignment check-ins (with your consent)

Investment: $1,500/month (3-month minimum)

➡️ Apply for Divorce Strategy Coaching

Package 3: Concierge Divorce Coaching

For women in constant litigation or ongoing crisis who need immediate access and intensive involvement.

This is your highest level of personalized support — when your ex, opposing counsel, or the court keeps escalating, and you need immediate, expert coaching to stay composed, credible, and strategic.

Everything in Full Divorce Strategy +

Priority 24/7 text and phone access for urgent support and real-time strategy

2 additional support calls between weekly sessions, used at your discretion

Investment: $2,200/month (3-month minimum)

➡️ Apply for Concierge Coaching

Contact

alexis@alexiskarpcoaching.com

Whether you’re in crisis or planning ahead, reach out for next steps or to request your strategy session.

Access Your Survival Kit Here

When divorce turns high-conflict — when there’s control, manipulation, hidden money, or endless chaos — it stops being just a divorce. It becomes survival. You don’t have to figure this out alone.